Where's my man?

I got thinking, everybody seems to be getting hitched. Why on earth am i still single and unattached. I dread celebrating my birthdays now (eeeewoooo!). So i got thinking...Is it true that all the "good men are taken", "Men are dogs", "Men aren't attracted to me".

Are the men the problem or are we the problem? Maybe this could help..let's see!

The truth is a man simply wants to be a man. He wants to be the person who does the asking, chasing and pursuing of the woman.Some of us like to do the pursuing and this in itself is entirely wrong.

Shey, You're looking for your man ba!, besides what i stated above you might want to also do the following which i learnt myself by the way when you are getting to know a potential bloke or better still trying to get his attention.

- Change your thoughts
Get rid of the regular mindset you have about men.You need to start loving men and by the way, not just the good looking ones.Men are irresistably imperfect and full of contradictions - you've just got to love that about them. The truth is that they are just about as sensitive as well and would like to become a part of the mysterious woman's world.

-Smile
Smile! A man will not know you are interested if you don't show him some form of interest.There are some men that are not naturally inclined to talk to you or ask for a date if there isn't a little action on your part.The Smile is to make him comfortable enough to approach you.Remember, men are just as sensitive and won't want to approach a grouch!...ouch i know that hurts...it will help...The key to meeting men and allowing them notice you in a good way is to be genuinely friendly and fun.When you do this you radiate warmth and exert a positive energy.

- Do your best to Improve your Physical Appearance
Men are visual, so you've got to be on top of your game here.You've got to look your best on all occasions. Some make up could be really helpful, make it light...you don't have to look like a clown to get noticed...Try finding clothes that fit your body best, makes you feel comfortable and look good, you don't have to squeeze yourself into things that end up making you look ridiculous.Flattering is the key word here.Keep yourself smelling good....smelling like nothing or worse like something horrible is a no no.

- Improve your body language and eye contact skills
Every woman has got to have a good grip on this subject.If you're trying to woo or get a man's attention, you want to appear as feminine as possible.Try walking differently for starters. Walk smoothly, sensually and non - threateningly.If you have to practice go ahead, there's no harm at all. Your stand and posture is just about as important too, standing akimbo gives off aggression, folding your arms tells him you're too serious, but ladies, standing with a tilt with your hands on your waist is believe me a good stand ( sexy and sensual)...try it and tell me the result..lollll...
When talking try making eye contacts.The truth about what you're saying is usually reflected through your eyes.

- Laugh at his Jokes
Guys love girls that make them feel confident and secure.If he's humoring you, it's probably a sign he enjoys your company. Take advantage of the victory by praising his humour with a good natured chuckle.

- Keep your distance
If he sees you too often, he'll start taking you for granted.If you've succeeded far enough with the above stated...you might want to consider keeping him curious and interested by not showing up too much.Keep your interactions sacred by limiting communication...Be careful though...Don't disappear all together or you'll make him think he's not needed.

When you put all this together, you will be amazed at how easy it is to attract and meet men.You become intriguing!There are plenty of single and available men out there.So what are you waiting for?